You Can't Convince Someone to be Secure in Your Relationship, Can You?

How do you know if your personal insecurities in a relationship are justified or if you're being irrational? How do you stop your past relationships from fucking with your current one?

This week's listener question comes from L, a girl on her way to California for 2 months...and her boyfriend is not feeling it, due to a complicated romantic past.

How can L convince her boo that 2 months apart is not the end of the world?